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I saw a friend I haven’t seen in 5 months or so and she gave me a big hug and said, “You look so healthy and happy. Thank your love for me.” And even though I am the one who put in the work to make myself healthier, it does make a significant difference when you are with someone who wants you to become just as healthy as you hope for yourself. As I get older, it just becomes more and more crucial for me to be with someone who is healthy for me emotionally, mentally and physically. And no matter what, I will absolutely never settle for anything less ever again.
Normal People House Requirements: A pool, three bathrooms, a big master bedroom
Me: I need a crossroads, a creek, and a bunch of trees I can make offerings to
“If he doesn’t treat you right, leave him.
No excuses.
No lies.
No ‘he just needs time to grow.’
No second chances.
He’s not your plant, and you’re not his sun.”
- He Can Grow By Himself
Boom
“The only time you truly become an adult is when you finally forgive your parents for being just as flawed as everyone else.”— Douglas Kennedy